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Filters narrow information When our predetermined conception of the world become our norm and creates a selective memory. We tend to filter towards what we do like, and filter out what we don’t. Think of like making a perfect cup of tea. It personalized. But also think that maybe everyone has their perfect cup of … Continue reading Filters a parenting conversation NLP
Understand that a child is figuring out their world. Think of it like navigating a roadmap, and they are following the map on the road to somewhere… but it is based on an interpretation or assumption, based on our beliefs and experiences. And kids have fewer experiences, so they base their decisions on limited life … Continue reading Parents need a feedback sandwich?
Is it the truth? or… There are times when you just need to know. Their safety is at risk, your not sure what to believe. There are those times, the times you wish you could read their mind. And now you can, because the mind gives us clues. In the position the eye moves when … Continue reading NLP Eye assessing Cues for parents. Truth or lie?
Loops in connection to empowerment. Whenever we ask ourselves a question. We run through a variety of filters, inside our mind. Based on experiences, beliefs systems, self esteem, environment and emotions. In our children, we notice that their natural stage of psychological evolution is in full play. Defining their experience, understanding how every experience is … Continue reading NLP Loops and Conversation
Empowering the conversation through safety. Empowering our communication through NLP. How do we effectively communicate? I’ve noticed when we create an environment conducive to sharing, conversation naturally and easily happen. I also notice and you may also find it curious that we tend to speak differently to different ages; young and old. When people speak … Continue reading NLP highlights sharing in conversations
Timing a conversation, NLP helps is choose Empowering the conversation by choosing our time to have a conversation. It’s good to engage at bedtime, when they are willing to talk, stretching those minutes before lights out.
Boundaries, parenting and NLP When children act out and push their boundaries, solutions are close at hand. Normal behaviors becomes patterns, that repeat over a lifetime Unless we change. NLP is tool for acomplishing change.
parenting and Negative Cycles In ourselves and creating them in our children. Being the parent and mentor to our child. Why? Because they are mimicking us. And they can only be broken through consistent attention towards our emotional mastery. NLP is a tool that is known for the ability to change behavior, motivate and to … Continue reading NLP parenting and negative Cycles
There may be as many parenting styles as leadership. Where are they similar and how can we better understand styles, to communicate and build better relationships with our kids. NLP gives us some answers that lead the way |parenting and leadership
When we have an image of anchoring, maybe it is attached to a boat. Creating a connection to a safe haven. But anchoring can be religious symbols, a place, sound, memories and more. In NLP, anchoring is directed. Choosing a place on the body to link a certain emotion inside the mind, so it can … Continue reading NLP anchoring
Could a mid-life crisis be considered normal? Well is is that uncomfortable feeling that comes along with the innate desire to grow beyond where we are today. So in that sense, yes a mid-life crisis is a choice to drop down a rabbit hole! Haha! Because we all go through these natural stages of our … Continue reading Mid-life crisis: normal?
Holiday season often ramps our stress. Maybe we want to please, maybe it is expected that we give. And even though giving is a happiness builder, giving beyond our means might bring stress. Today I offer some understanding of what is happening inside our minds and how we can empower ourselves to have a different … Continue reading Decompress Stress
Most of the things we fear are irrational. We all know that. The things we worry about are often unfounded. But there is it, that knot in the pit of our stomach, FEAR! When I was young, I LOVED to fly. I found it exciting and filled with the possibility of going somewhere to have … Continue reading Fear of flying?
We have all heard that we are what we think. And then what? often we skip along through our day without giving it another thought. And in the end have we pursued or achieved our goals. These words have the power to hold us back from our dreams. When we truly embrace that “we are … Continue reading NLP Stop Words hold you back
Brandler and grinder said it was not the world, but the individuals model of the world that lacks choice. So what does that mean and why is it important to understand? The facts are there are always 2 choices or more that arise from any circumstance. The choice is our to either take a choice … Continue reading NLP does the world lack choice or is it simply perception
Why eliminating certain words or using them in ways that work to our avantage empowers parents. When you want your child to break curfew, tell them “don’t be late” . Why is that? Well. certain words are dropped inside the mind. the mind doesn’t know how to process them and so they are simply dropped. … Continue reading NLP illuminated words to avoid
How we frame a question or conversation changes the outcome. learn why different ages must have a differently framed question. learn the reasons why teens take greater risk and how you as a parent can influence the conversation parents frame conversation for greater influence
How assumptions show up in our conversations and how they lead us astray. NLP clarifies what presuppositions are and gives us tools to overcome, paving the way to clear communication
Communication is defined as a 2-way dialogue of sharing ideas. But often when we are wanting our children to conform, communication is a one way street… and then it has a better chance of failing. Empowered parenting
Why is NLP so powerful in communication? because NLP offers us multiple ways to engage the subconscious mind, bypassing the critical thinker within the conscious mind and getting us more of what we want when communicating with our kids.
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