Filters narrow information
When our predetermined conception of the world become our norm and creates a selective memory. We tend to filter towards what we do like, and filter out what we don’t.
Think of like making a perfect cup of tea. It personalized. But also think that maybe everyone has their perfect cup of tea. And they are all different. But this cup of tea, filters our much of what the world is. All the different reali”teas” are filtered out. So imaging trying out a new cup of eta. One you have never tried before. What would your world sound like? WHY? because you child is drinking their own tea…. and mis-communicating.