Loops in connection to empowerment. Whenever we ask ourselves a question. We run through a variety of filters, inside our mind. Based on experiences, beliefs systems, self esteem, environment and emotions.
In our children, we notice that their natural stage of psychological evolution is in full play. Defining their experience, understanding how every experience is building either empowering or self limiting beliefs. What is working and what is not? Answers can be found in the loops we witness in their behavior.
Look into your childs eyes as you ask them wuestions and you can see their mind shifting through these processes.
Empowering our communication through NLP. How do we effectively communicate? I’ve noticed when we create an environment conducive to sharing, conversation naturally and easily happen.
I also notice and you may also find it curious that we tend to speak differently to different ages; young and old. When people speak a different language we may notice we speak louder.
How can we truly empower our ability to communicate? NLP provides us with strategies. In all things safety is necessary. Safety creates the environment where all people of all race, culture and age can share ideas.
We have all heard that we are what we think. And then what? often we skip along through our day without giving it another thought. And in the end have we pursued or achieved our goals. These words have the power to hold us back from our dreams.
When we truly embrace that “we are what we think” we become conscious of the thoughts flowing in and out of our mind.
Now that we know there are stop words, that when we listen to them filter through our mind… interrupt them. or when we actually see the words fall out of our mouth, brush them away.
The first clue is we become aware that we have them. This awareness is the not only the first rule of mindfulness it rings the “achievement” bell of success.
Any emotional mastery requires us to become aware. of the words that hold us back. The task? To harness the runaway brain. Condition it to focus on our highest ideals and goals. Knowing that our subconscious mind will do exactly what we ask.
Consistency trains us to be the mast of our mind, rather than letting the “monkey mind” swing us through the trees.
Check in with Stop Words in this video and see how NLP is influencing our relationship to our mind and our future.
Why eliminating certain words or using them in ways that work to our avantage empowers parents.
When you want your child to break curfew, tell them “don’t be late” . Why is that? Well. certain words are dropped inside the mind. the mind doesn’t know how to process them and so they are simply dropped.
How we frame a question or conversation changes the outcome. learn why different ages must have a differently framed question. learn the reasons why teens take greater risk and how you as a parent can influence the conversation