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Filters For a Parenting Conversation NLP

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Learn How Filters Narrow Conversational Information

When our predetermined conception of the world become our norm and creates a selective memory. We tend to filter towards what we do like, and filter out what we don’t.

Think of like making a perfect cup of tea. It personalized. But also think that maybe everyone has their perfect cup of tea. And they are all different. But this cup of tea, filters our much of what the world is. All the different reali”teas” are filtered out. So imaging trying out a new cup of eta. One you have never tried before. What would your world sound like? WHY? because you child is drinking their own tea…. and mis-communicating.

Parents May Need a Feedback Sandwich?

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Understand that a child is figuring out their world. Think of the firdst time they figured out how to turn on a light switch. Now their brain can use this information for the next time they enter a dark room, they natural reach inside and feel the wall to find the switch. Our mind is like that, using previously learned information and applying it to a future task. So like building a sandwich certain things are already pre-loaded. The problem with this is that there are times when information is no longer useful.

Life can be more complex than simply turning on a light switch. So, let’s think about it a little bit differently. Consider the mind uses previously learned information, like a road-map that we may use to navigating. and they are following the map on the road to somewhere… but it is based on an interpretation or assumption from earlier times, and filtered through beliefs and experiences. And understanding that our kids have fewer experiences, so gthe information they base their decisions on, is also limited to their life experiences. Less cause and effect experience, making them more likely to take more risks because they have been “burned” fewer times.

How can we help them make better decisions? By using a communication tool called a feedback sandwich

NLP Eye Assessing Cues For Parents. Is it Truth Or A Lie?

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Is it the truth? or…

There are times when you just need to know. Their safety is at risk, your not sure what to believe. There are those times, the times you wish you could read their mind.

And now you can, because the mind gives us clues. In the position the eye moves when it recalls information or creates it. Learn eye assessing cues and listen and lean into that conversation.

Is it the truth? or…

There are times when you just need to know. Their safety is at risk, your not sure what to believe. Then is the times you wish you had

NLP Highlights How Safety And Sharing In Conversations Is Valuable

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Empowering the conversation through safety.

Empowering our communication through NLP. How do we effectively communicate? I’ve noticed when we create an environment conducive to sharing, conversation naturally and easily happen.

I also notice and you may also find it curious that we tend to speak differently to different ages; young and old. When people speak a different language we may notice we speak louder.

How can we truly empower our ability to communicate? NLP provides us with strategies. In all things safety is necessary. Safety creates the environment where all people of all race, culture and age can share ideas.

How Can NLP Help Us To Build Healthy Boundaries In Parenting

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Boundaries, parenting and NLP

When children act out and push their boundaries, solutions are close at hand. Normal behaviors becomes patterns, that repeat over a lifetime

Unless we change. NLP is tool for acomplishing change.

NLP Parenting And Negative Cycles

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Parenting and Negative Cycles

In ourselves and creating them in our children. Being the parent and mentor to our child. Why? Because they are mimicking us. And they can only be broken through consistent attention towards our emotional mastery.

NLP is a tool that is known for the ability to change behavior, motivate and to install the excellence of others. The first key to change is the awareness that change is needed.

NLP Anchoring

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When we have an image of anchoring, maybe it is attached to a boat. Creating a connection to a safe haven. But anchoring can be religious symbols, a place, sound, memories and more.

In NLP, anchoring is directed. Choosing a place on the body to link a certain emotion inside the mind, so it can be recalled at will.

NLP also associates unwanted behaviors, memories and emotion to a dedicated “anchor” and then through a NLP process, shifts the associated meaning towards a high performance or positive state, then re-anchoring.

Mid-life Crisis: Is It Normal And What We Can Understand About Crisis

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Could a mid-life crisis be considered normal? Well is is that uncomfortable feeling that comes along with the innate desire to grow beyond where we are today.

So in that sense, yes a mid-life crisis is a choice to drop down a rabbit hole! Haha! Because we all go through these natural stages of our psychological evolution, some more smoothly than others

So what is the difference? Possibly awareness. The understanding that this uncomfortable feeling is a signal that we want more from life. But it doesn’t mean that we have to leap.

Ever jumped off a cliff into a pool of water? A midlife crisis might just look that that, with a big dose of cold wet reality that we really didn’t want after all.

But some times we can’t take back what we can’t take back. bridges burned and relationships damaged beyond repair. Only the sound of whaling remains.

Decompress Stress

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Holiday season often ramps our stress. Maybe we want to please, maybe it is expected that we give.

And even though giving is a happiness builder, giving beyond our means might bring stress.

Today I offer some understanding of what is happening inside our minds and how we can empower ourselves to have a different perspective on giving.

Decompressing Stress

Fear of Flying And Is It Rational?

ImageMarch 18, 2019June 25, 2020UncategorizedLifecoach, psychology

Most of the things we fear are irrational. We all know that. The things we worry about are often unfounded.

But there is it, that knot in the pit of our stomach, FEAR! When I was young, I LOVED to fly. I found it exciting and filled with the possibility of going somewhere to have more fun. And then the plan that I was in, crashed.

Why boarding a small plane still makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up.

Is a Fear of Flying rational?